So, I've been asked more than a few times, "How the heck did you have time to write a book?"I jotted down a few things that I thought of while taking a bath.
1. It was my sanity. I've discovered about myself that I need a side story to my daily grind. I need to have a creative something that I can work on and donate some brain cells to.
2. I read a great book by Anne Lamott called "Bird by Bird." She emphasizes the value of writing a little each day. So, I did just that. (I love this book except that one entire chapter uses a certain cuss word to describe her first draft. I almost recommended to a mom that her aspiring novelist daughter read it until I remembered this particular chapter. I don't want to be the person guilty of introducing this English word to her poor daughter. I'll leave that to Youtube.)
Each morning, I'd find an hour or two and write. My routine was coffee, my porch, Sara Groves and the background noise of chanting grandpas doing tai qi.
3. I am passionate about the topic. When you are deeply convicted in something, it's amazing how the time seems to find itself. If I truly believed in dying my wonky gray hairs that have taken up a front row seat along my temple, you better know I'd find the time to do that.
I desperately want people to understand what it means to accept a calling to be overseas. I want them to laugh both at us and with us as we expose our foreignness in every country we land in. I want to remind people that you don't have to be afraid if you truly believe that God is that big.
So when you believe those things, you redeem the time in other places so that there is space to write.
And...I got rid of clothes so that I didn't have much laundry. That helped too.
4. Lastly, my loving husband looked at me as I started writing and said, "If you start this, you must finish it." I'm an ENFP, which means I love to brainstorm and start projects. What I don't love is finishing them. I just kinda close my eyes and hope someone more talented and organized comes along to help me finish the task. As a child, I tried to hand copy the book "Wizard of Oz," and make a functioning trash can out of tooth picks. You can now see why my husband
If there is something you feel called to do, but can't for the life of you figure out how to make that happen, my advice would be pray and then get creative. If God is behind it, things will work themselves out as you go along. I'm thankful and humbled that He'd allow someone who can't even use a comma properly to write a book like this.
Ok, now that I've met you I feel like I can comment without awkwardness...whew! As a fellow ENFP-er, I'm very impressed with your ability to finish writing a book. Seriously. Can't wait to read it!! And the cover cracks me because for a while my daughter regularly ate cornflakes with chopsticks. You rock.
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Are you serious about getting rid of clothes so you'd have less laundry? You are so funny with your Wizard of Oz and toothpick trash can! I have a million projects that need finishing, is it because I'm an INFJ? I'd like something to blame it on. . .
ReplyDeleteYou always make me laugh :) I'm thinking of following in your footsteps. I'm going to start getting rid of clothes... not sure the book part will happen but at least I'll have less laundry.
ReplyDeleteKellie-I totally got rid of clothes. I brought each kid in and told them to pick out 3 pairs of pants and 4 shirts...the rest was given away. Clothes and laundry are my kryptonite.
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